Death of a Sibling

The death of my brother (Aaron Thaler) was devastating.

I was a few weeks shy of 3 years old when Aaron was born, so he was a part of my life for as long as I can remember.

My father was in the Army and we grew up overseas.  I didn’t really get to know my extended family until I was a teenager and I never had the same friend for more than a couple of years.

That made my relationship with Aaron even more special.  He was that one person I was able to play with and fight with, all throughout my childhood years.  He was my only consistent friend.

We had our ups and downs together.  Many battles were fought and a lot of blood was spilt.  However, no grudges were held.  After a few days, we would laugh about the last fight as if it was all a game.

Aaron died suddenly and I spent the first month in a state of shock.  Eventually the reality hit me and I went into a deep state of depression.  There were other factors happening at the time that caused my depression to spiral out of control.

I was blessed to have a few friends willing to reach out and help and a therapist that taught me how to overcome my depression.

It’s been almost two years since Aaron passed and my life is starting to get back on track; however, it will never be the same.  I will always miss my brother.

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One thought on “Death of a Sibling

  1. I’m sorry for your loss. I lost my stepbrother six years ago. I was never that close with him but his death was still really hard for me and I know I’ll never be the same.

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