I spent my childhood (from 1974-1978 and 1980-1987) in Germany, because my father was in the Army. This was during the cold war and Russia was our sworn enemy. We were in Germany protecting the world from communism and the evil Russians.
In 1997, I ended up moving to Russia. Things had changed a lot since my childhood. The wall had collapsed and Russia was no longer a communist country.
It felt strange to be in Russia, to be in a country I was taught to hate, to mingle with people I viewed as enemies.
While I was in Russia, I made friends and I learned they were a lot like me. They too had been taught to fear and hate, just as I had been. They too were curious about life on the other side of the wall. They had many of the same desires and hopes for the future as I did. We weren’t that different at the core of our being, and I was able to make friends with those I used to view as enemies.
Joey is a ten year old Labrador/Great Pyrenees mix. He is still a spunky dog; however, his spunkiness doesn’t last as long as it once did.
Buddy is a three year old Beagle/Rottweiler mix. He is energetic, friendly, and loves to play.
There is a huge age difference between these guys, but when it comes to doggy friendships, age doesn’t matter.
This book is one of my favorites. It’s about a magical book that allows the reader to actually enter the story. As a book lover, I find the idea intriguing.
The main character reads the magical book and enters the neverending story. His adventures teach him several valuable life lessons.
- Actions have consequences, regardless of the reason for those actions
- Listen to the advice of those you trust
- Discern who is truly your friend and who is trying to use you
- A prideful heart is dangerous
- Learning to love is the greatest gift
This is an excellent book and one that I have enjoyed numerous times over the years.
I posted and answered a few typical ice breaker questions, so you could get to know a little better. Also, I would love for you to answer some or all the questions, so I can learn more about you.
- Would you rather vacation in Alaska or Hawaii? I would prefer Alaska, because it is beautiful and not crowded.
- How many pairs of shoes do you own? I own three pairs of shoes (one pair of house-shoes, one pair of sneakers, and one pair hiking shoes).
- What’s your favorite holiday? I really enjoy Christmas, because there are a ton of fun activities, the lights and decorations are lovely, and exchanging gifts is fun.
- If you could describe yourself as an animal, which one would it be? I would go with raccoon. They are intelligent, curious, silly, and mischievous. That’s a great description for me as well.
- What’s your life slogan? Improvise, Adapt, and Overcome
- What outdoor activities do you enjoy? I enjoy hiking and biking.
- Where were you born? I was born in Ft Bliss (El Paso) Texas.
- What kind of music do you enjoy? I usually listen to Country and Southern Rock.
- What hobbies do you enjoy? My favorite hobbies are blogging, reading, and photography.
My name is Dr. Haley Armstrong and I have an extra-terrestrial friend.
It all started in 2147, while I was working at the Mars Research Laboratory (Site A). The lab was old and rarely used, so I was alone that day. A massive storm was raging on the planet, so all I could see was clouds of red dust swirling around the facility. That’s why I never noticed the small spacecraft approaching the launch bay.
The first time I actually got a glimpse of Triad was on the security camera. I am not ashamed to say, I almost fainted. Triad walked down the corridor and bypassed the security code on each door, as if it was child’s play. He was tall and slender. His skin had a distinctive greenish tint, but the funniest thing about him was his attire. He was dressed like a 20th century hippy.
Triad reached the door outside my room and looked into the camera. He asked if he could come inside the room to talk to me. It’s not like he needed my permission. There was nothing I could do to stop him.
My body was trembling with fear and I wanted to hide. However, I also longed to meet this strange individual at my door. After a few tense moments, Triad smiled and said, “I understand. I will wait out here until you are ready to talk to me.”
He seemed so polite and didn’t look threatening at all. I opened the door, even though my brain was screaming for me to stop.
Triad introduced himself. He was an anthropology student and specialized in galactic studies. He was working on a research project and was given strict instructions to never make contact with any Earthlings, because we are irrational and have violent tendencies.
For some reason, Triad sensed I was different. He was taking a great risk by coming to meet me. If he was captured by unscrupulous scientist, he would probably be killed and dissected for the purpose of scientific research.
If his existence became public knowledge, it would lead to wide spread panic and destruction. However, Triad believed in my peaceful nature and in my ability to keep our friendship a secret.
I just stared at him. I was completely at a loss for words. My mind was spinning, as if a tornado was jumbling up each thought and I couldn’t even manage to say my own name.
Triad paused for a second and laughed. He said, “I know my appearance is rather shocking.”
After what seemed like an eternity, I was finally able to introduce myself. There was a gleam of happiness in Triad’s eyes. He extended his hand saying, “I believe your people grasp each other’s hand as a sign of friendship. Is that correct?”
I was finally starting to relax, so I reached out and took his hand. His skin was warm and silky smooth.
We talked for hours. He told me all about his planet and his people. They are a peaceful bunch. There hasn’t been a war in just over 5 millennium. Their life span is on average 250 years.
Triad was 82, but still was not old enough to teach at the educational centers. He recently completed his mandatory studies and would spend the next 15 to 20 years conducting field research.
I asked Triad about intergalactic space travel. He tried to explain it to me, but it was way beyond my comprehension.
I told Triad about my family and my future aspirations. We talked about life on Earth and what it was like to work at the Mars research laboratory. It was a great privilege; only the best scientist are allowed to work on Mars. We spend one year on Mars and then return to Earth for at least two years.
Triad decided to try some of the food I had with me, but it literally made him vomit. He was so embarrassed and apologized profusely. Now, it was my turn to laugh.
The storm was starting to clear and Triad said he must leave. He didn’t want anyone in the other laboratories to see him or his spacecraft.
I stammered a few words that didn’t make much sense, even to me. I desperately wanted to continue talking to Triad. He looked at me with understanding and said he would also like to communicate with me in the future.
Triad handed me a black device, about the size of my thumb. The front of the device had three red lights and each side had a button. The back of the device was covered in tiny writing that looked like some kind of crazy mathematical equation.
Triad asked me, “Do you know Morse code?”
I looked at him with astonishment. I told him, “It’s an antiquated form of communication. Nobody uses it.”
Triad learned Morse code as part of his studies. He created a cheatsheet for me, so I could learn it too. Then he taught me how to use the device. I could use it to send Triad messages in Morse code and he would respond back in kind.
If someone accidentally found the device, it would look like random light impulses that can be used for relaxation or meditation. I would be the only person able to understand the messages created by the flashing lights.
As Triad turned to leave, I screamed “Wait!” I rushed over to him and grabbed him in an embrace. Tears were pouring down my face. Between each sobbing breath, I managed to tell Triad how grateful I was for his trust and how much I looked forward to communicating with him in the future.
Triad was surprised by my display of emotions. He responded by saying, “Now I know, I have a true Earth friend. I hope one day, I will be able to see you in person once again.”
Triad left and I haven’t seen him since that day. However, we send messages to each other frequently. Triad is my extra-terrestrial pen-pal and a true (all be it strange) friend.
The whole family went to see Cars 3 at the movie theater last week. We all enjoyed the film and had a great time. The Cars movies are fun to watch, but they also teach valuable lessons.
Lightening McQueen starts out rude and arrogant. As a result, he had no friends, his pit crew abandoned him, and he lost the most important race of his life.
During the movie, he learned humility. He learned to treat others with respect. He also learned actions have consequences.
Mater is a rusty tow-truck. He loves being silly and he is a loyal friend. Unfortunately, other cars tend to make fun of Mater. They call him an idiot and a fool.
However, Mater knows more about car engines than anybody else. That knowledge allowed him to solve the case and find the mastermind criminal that was trying to destroy the race cars.
Lighting McQueen and Mater learned everyone is different, with different personalities, and different skills. It’s important to accept our differences and be kind to everyone.
They also learned fights happen among friends. However, friendship is valuable and we should make amends after a fight.
Lighting McQueen is getting older and struggling to keep up with the rookies. He learns a lot about motivation and asking for help when it is needed.
At the end of the movie, Lighting McQueen learns another valuable lesson. Helping someone else achieve their dreams is extremely rewarding. Teaching others the skills you have learned throughout your life is a great way for your legacy continue, even when you are no longer able to compete.