The title of this book is self-explanatory. It’s full of advice on how to be kind to others. I am sharing a few of my favorite ideas.
The death of my brother (Aaron Thaler) was devastating.
I was a few weeks shy of 3 years old when Aaron was born, so he was a part of my life for as long as I can remember.
My father was in the Army and we grew up overseas. I didn’t really get to know my extended family until I was a teenager and I never had the same friend for more than a couple of years.
That made my relationship with Aaron even more special. He was that one person I was able to play with and fight with, all throughout my childhood years. He was my only consistent friend.
We had our ups and downs together. Many battles were fought and a lot of blood was spilt. However, no grudges were held. After a few days, we would laugh about the last fight as if it was all a game.
Aaron died suddenly and I spent the first month in a state of shock. Eventually the reality hit me and I went into a deep state of depression.
It’s been five years since Aaron passed, but I will always miss my brother.
I am one of those people that will help turtles cross the road.
A few weeks ago, I was driving with Mom and Gwen in the Jeep. We were on a four-lane highway and I spotted a turtle. I pulled over and rushed to help the turtle get to his destination.
The turtle wasn’t happy about being picked up by me. However, once we made it across the road he continued on his merry way.
I can’t save all the animals in the world, but I can do my part and try to save some of the animals in the world.
We all have to deal with bad situations from time to time. However, there are several things we can do to help us through the hard times.
- Remain flexible – Being overly rigid can cause the bad situation to get worse, while flexibility allows us to find solutions.
- Perspective – Life is not fair, how you view your situation will determine how you feel and how well you can deal with the situation.
- Learn from the situation – Learning from what is happening might help you avoid similar situations or at least help you resolve similar situations quickly in the future.
- Ask for help – We all need help from time to time, so don’t be afraid to ask for it.
Project Semicolon was started to raise awareness of how mental illnesses can create havoc in a person’s life and lead to suicide or suicidal ideations. It was designed to function as an anti-suicide initiative.
The semicolon is used in a sentence when the sentence could have ended, but the author decided to continue the sentence. You are the author and the sentence is your life, so don’t end your sentence prematurely.
I was at the doctor’s office. There was a woman with her young son sitting across from me in the waiting room. The poor little fellow was not happy and he made sure everyone knew about his distress. That got me thinking.
As adults, we often hide our pain and our true emotions. We say we are fine, even if we are in great distress. We are often afraid to ask for help, because we might appear to be week or needy. We will suffer in silence, instead of asking for help.
However when children are hurting, physically or emotionally, they will seek out help. Children will immediately look for the people that love them and express their discomfort. Children are honest about their feelings and I admire them for that.