As teenagers, my brother and I spent a lot of time playing in the woods. We went hiking, fishing, and swimming in the creek.
We also built a makeshift fort and took some of my mom’s old lawn furniture down there. Mom never did figure out what happened to her chairs.
We spray-painted graffiti under the bridge. We wrote our names, the names of our dogs, and noted each year we were there.
Basically, the two of us ran wild through those woods and we were having a blast.
That was 26 years ago. Aaron passed away three years ago and his birthday is on Monday. I decided to take his daughter (Gwen) out there. She heard various stories over the years, but never got a chance to see the area. It seemed like a good way to honor Aaron’s memory.
I was surprised to see a lot of our graffiti is still there. Each step I took, felt like I was going back in time. Even though the terrain has changed some over the years, I could still recognize different sections and areas. I still remembered my way around those woods.
Memories of those days flooded my mind. It was a surreal feeling. I could almost see us and our dogs running wild. I was excited to see it all again. However, I felt the grief of my brother’s death.
I was hiking down memory lane and my heart was overflowing with mixed emotions.
I posted and answered a few typical ice breaker questions, so you could get to know a little better. Also, I would love for you to answer some or all the questions, so I can learn more about you.
- Would you rather vacation in Alaska or Hawaii? I would prefer Alaska, because it is beautiful and not crowded.
- How many pairs of shoes do you own? I own three pairs of shoes (one pair of house-shoes, one pair of sneakers, and one pair hiking shoes).
- What’s your favorite holiday? I really enjoy Christmas, because there are a ton of fun activities, the lights and decorations are lovely, and exchanging gifts is fun.
- If you could describe yourself as an animal, which one would it be? I would go with raccoon. They are intelligent, curious, silly, and mischievous. That’s a great description for me as well.
- What’s your life slogan? Improvise, Adapt, and Overcome
- What outdoor activities do you enjoy? I enjoy hiking and biking.
- Where were you born? I was born in Ft Bliss (El Paso) Texas.
- What kind of music do you enjoy? I usually listen to Country and Southern Rock.
- What hobbies do you enjoy? My favorite hobbies are blogging, reading, and photography.
Dear Household Plant,
Please don’t give up and die. Please keep fighting for survival. We (the Thaler family) enjoy your wonderful smell and appreciate your fly repelling capabilities. We apologize for not taking proper care of you. For whatever we did wrong, we are truly sorry and we promise to make amends.
Did we give you to much water or not enough water? Did we allow you to spend to much time in the sun, or not enough time in the sun? Did we fail to give you the appropriate plant food? Was there something else you desperately needed from us and we failed to provide it?
Since you are unable to speak, we have called an expert to answer theses questions. We promise to do better in the future and provide for your needs. We desire for you to be a thriving member of the house, so please don’t die.
The Thaler Family
What can happen in a second?
- A baby can take their first breath of life
- A bullet can leave a gun, zoom through the air, and destroy a life
- A smile can brighten someone’s day and lift their spirits
- Expressing gratitude can make someone feel special
- A harsh word, spoken in anger, can break a person’s spirit
- A hug can bring heeling and peace to a troubled soul
A lot can happen in a second. We can bring heeling, peace, and love to others. We can also create destruction, agony, and death. Every second matters, so use them wisely.
Beauty surrounds us everyday, but we are often to busy to notice it.
Take time to look around you. Take time to look at the mundane things from a different angle. Take time to pay attention to your surroundings.
You may be surprised by what you find.
The Jeep decided not to run today. I had it towed to the shop and it will probably be there for a few days.
Oh well, that’s how it goes…
An anchor is used to hold a ship in place. The word anchor can also refer to a person who is reliable and supportive to those around them. Anchors keep things under control during the storm. Anchors keep things from being lost in the abyss.
When your life is full of turmoil, what anchors are available to you? What can you rely on to keep you from getting lost in the abyss?