Wayde Zane Slocumb was a counselor at Alabama Psychological Services, until he was arrested for possessing and distributing child pornography.
I was reading about this case on WHNT.com, which got me thinking about similar arrest that have accorded in this area.
A police officer in Huntsville was arrested a few months ago on sexual assault charges. A youth minister at a Baptist church was arrested for similar charges. Also, several teachers have been arrested for having sexual relationships with their students in the last couple of years.
These are just the stories of the people that got caught. There are many other predators out there that go undetected.
I wonder can you ever really know somebody? I also wonder who can you trust or should you just never trust anybody?
The world is full of wolves in sheep’s clothing and unfortunately they blend very well in our society.
According to the Oxford Dictionary: forgive means to “stop feeling angry or resentful toward someone for an offense or mistake.”
What if the offense caused a lifetime of pain? What if the trauma was so horrible you are left suffering with PTSD and depression for the rest of your life? Do you still forgive the offender?
I spent most of my life refusing to forgive a pedophile that tormented me and my brother. I wanted revenge. I used to daydream about finding this man, so I could hurt him as much as he hurt me. To be honest, I even thought about killing him from time to time.
Even though my mind was constantly dwelling on what happened to us, I refused to talk about it. Two years ago, I was finally able to tell my story to a therapist. I told the therapist everything that happened to us and was able to deal with the emotions that were festering (like a nasty infection) all those years.
I still think about that sadistic SOB that abused us, and I just can’t bring myself to say I forgive him. He caused so much pain that our lives would forever be affected by his actions. However, I am willing to let go of my anger (which is basically the same thing, but it’s easier to say). I am ready to move on with my life.